A Must Watch Touching And Sad Video As She Curse Her Ex-Husband, His Family And His Lawyers



This beautiful lady is Bukola Oduwaiye. She is based in Europe and a mother of three. Her ex-husband Fredrick Segun Duile set her a divorce notice from his lawyers in Nigeria. Below is a link to her Facebook page and the video she made stating all that she has been through in the hands of Mr Fredrick and curses him, his lawyers and his family. 

https://www.facebook.com/bukola.oduwaiye?fref=ts

After watching the video, I was speechless, sad and had goose bumps all over me. I have a few questions bugging me. Can anyone imagine what she has been through that she has gotten to this point? Why stay in a marriage till it gets to this point? Why help him get into Europe? Why remarry him in Europe?

Sincerely, I would have seen my going to Europe as an escape plan from an abusive marriage and husband. If I smell him around in Europe, I will get the cops to deport him back to Nigeria. Infact this is a really sad and helpless case.

 To Aunty Bukola Oduwaiye, please take heart. I cannot imagine what you have been through and is going through now but you just have to fight for you children. Don’t give up. You cannot afford for you kids to turn out to be like your ex-husband. And after you have gotten them back, teach them a better way of living life and treating women for the boys and the girls that they deserve better and nothing less. May God help and strengthen you. 
  
God please help the singles ladies make better choices. 


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